Follow Your Fire

How to Be the Hero of Your Story: Tips on Pain, Re-framing, and Transformation

With all that’s wrong politically (and in the world) it’s easy to want a “hero” in the form of an ideal candidate or sweeping (and quick) change in our system— I know I find myself fantasizing about that.

But that hero has already arrived – and it’s us.

‘We are the ones we’ve been waiting for.’

A Creepy Hitchhiker Taught Me About Certainty: How to Stop Waiting to Make Decisions About Life

The man who had looked like a funky hippie from afar looked pretty sketchy and creepy up close. His body had a strange tick and some teeth were missing; though the years have dulled my memory, I specifically recall that his eyes had this terrifying look – a look that we all register deep down in our animal body. Is this what it means to be certain?

Removing the Mask: How to Be Who You Are and Deal with People Leaving

I’ve never had as many people unsubscribe from my blog as I have in the past few months – we’re talking some big digits - it’s been wild.

Seeing that I’d lost subscribers was something that used to get me really down– it made me think: “Did I offend them? Overwhelm them?” Or the highest offense in my book…“Was I boring?”

Turns out, I was on the exact right track…